It often surprises me to realise how others see me.
I struggle at times with the skill of looking at myself through another's eyes. I don't really consider myself more mature than when I was 15, although I guess if I think about it I have changed a great deal. I feel rather flattered and surprised when when someone tells me they respect me, look up to me, or think well of me in any way.
Knowing this makes me wonder if our wives also struggle to know how we see them.
You see a woman who is strong, tender, loving, kind, patient, attractive... and more.
But does she know that's what you see? Perhaps it's time to tell her.