How would she describe you to her friends?
How would she describe you to your great grandchildren?
How would she describe you to you?
How do you want her to describe you?
When you get an idea of how people see you, it inspires you, even empowers you, to be better. It compels you to do better, to make the sacrifice needed. In fact, it doesn't even feel like a sacrifice. It feels like purpose.
I recently read about a woman who was losing her husband to an addiction. She spoke of how when she married him he was her knight in shining armour, her strength, someone she admired that could do no wrong. I doubt he knew that.
Think about how you want your wife to describe you. Write it down as though it were words from your wife describing you.
My husband is...